The Transformation of 'Mormon Wives' into Gen Z's 'Vanderpump' Rules

During the Season 3 reunion of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, Taylor Frankie Paul met Stassi Schroeder, who hosted the special. Paul whispered, People always tell me I remind them of Stassi, and Schroeder acknowledged the similarity. Introduced to the festive cast and viewers on December 4, Schroeder said, Im thrilled to be here, not just as a fan, but because Ive walked in your shoesdating the wrong person, navigating controversies, and handling public attention.

For those unfamiliar, Schroeder rose to fame on Bravos Vanderpump Rules, a reality show set in West Hollywood. While the glamorous, party-heavy SUR staff contrasts with the LDS homemakers of Utah, striking parallels exist between Taylor and Stassi. Just as Vanderpump defined millennial reality TV, Hulus portrayal of the scandal-prone Utah sisterhood, often called MomTok, has captured Gen Z audiences, fostering intense parasocial relationships.

Vanderpump Rules debuted in 2013 at SUR, Lisa Vanderpumps famed West Hollywood venue. It showcased a young, coed staff navigating relationships, ambitions, and social drama, offering a nostalgic window for millennials between the late-2000s economic crash and recent political upheavals. Stassi, only 22 in Season 1, emerged as the sharp-tongued leader, while the ensemble included figures like Scheana Shay and Tom Sandoval. The shows trajectory shifted over time, culminating in scandals and a fractured cast by Season 11. The reboot, though introducing slight diversity, struggled to recapture the originals charisma.

In contrast, The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives resonates strongly with 2025 audiences. Centered on Utah-based influencers and Mormon mothers, the show thrives on scandal, infidelity, and personal drama while maintaining a nod to traditional domestic roles. Taylor, often called the face of MomTok, mirrors Stassi in wit, charisma, and the ability to narrate her friends misadventures. The show also incorporates modern conflicts involving relationships, social media, and online culture.

The series appeals to a culturally polarized audience. Conservative viewers can admire the women embracing marriage and motherhood, while liberal viewers are shown inclusive moments, such as attending LGBTQ Pride events. The cast openly discusses experiences with abuse, therapy, and self-care. This blend of perspectives, along with transparency about reality TV mechanics, gives the show a contemporary authenticity missing from traditional docusoaps.

Season 3 emphasizes the Wives rise to fame, documenting auditions, media appearances, and negotiations behind the scenes. The show blurs the line between scripted reality and unscripted social media stardom, offering insights into the business side of entertainment while keeping interpersonal drama front and center.

Although it may not match the classic brilliance of earlier reality hits, The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives succeeds by updating familiar formulas for a younger, digitally native audience. Its blend of scandal, social media, and candid reflection has made it a defining reality series for Gen Z, eclipsing even high-profile properties like Vanderpump Villa and the Kardashians.

Author: Ethan Caldwell