Father Decides to Exclude Daughter from Will After 8 Years of No Contact

A 64-year-old father shared his emotional struggle on Reddit after being estranged from his 32-year-old daughter for eight years. The conflict began when she married a man he described as disrespectful, resulting in a complete breakdown of family relationships.

According to the father, his daughter cut off all contact with me and my entire family 8 years ago after she got married. He claimed that her husband had a controlling attitude, insisting on being the most important man in her life, which created tension between him and the rest of the family.

Despite his repeated attempts to warn his daughter about her husbands behavior, she rejected him, blocked the family, and excluded them from her wedding. Ive tried telling her that he isnt good for her but she basically told me to go f--- myself, he wrote.

Even though they were estranged, the father kept tabs on her through a neighbor friend. He noted that she has two children and is expecting a third, but made it clear she did not want her parents involved in her life. He and his wife attempted to visit her, but were repeatedly turned away, leaving them to accept the distance.

Now, as he reviews his estate planning, he struggles with whether his daughter should inherit any of his assets. He expressed concern that disinheriting her might feel wrong despite the years of separation. If she doesnt want me or my family in her life while Im alive she should not get anything from me when Im gone, he explained, noting that his wife and other children supported this view.

The emotional weight of the decision remains significant for him. Memories of his daughters childhood and a lingering hope for reconciliation make the choice difficult. Shes still my daughter and leaving her absolutely nothing just feels wrong, he admitted.

Reddit users responded with advice and empathy. One suggested consulting a lawyer to ensure proper legal steps if disinheriting, while another recommended leaving a symbolic gesture or keepsake rather than a monetary inheritance, offering a way to acknowledge their connection despite the estrangement.

Author: Sophia Brooks